UsernameTaken2: The purple dot that used to be permanently shown, making it useless, then they "fixed" it and now it only shows up sometimes, so it's still useless? The "Forum Replies" page also doesn't show most replies. I was mostly thinking of email notifications though (I don't know if Steam actually has those, but any normal forum does).
I personally stopped paying attention to the purple dot years ago, and never missed it.
I don't have any issue with the "Forum Replies" page, which works as expected, if you understand how that is. There are rules it works by. You can also improve things, by making sure you enable the 'Favorite post' checkbox in each thread you want to follow. And if you enable a thread you create as a question, you get similar. The age (creation date) of a thread plays a part.
I personally would hate to get emails about forum replies, but each to their own. I don't know that there is much at the forum worthy of needing notification by email. If you require help from Support, you would usually get a PM and a notification for that near top right.