amazingchestahead: You have any mods? That dialog line is only triggered in a rather specific situation, and it can only be triggered once. Has the bandit ambush happened to you?

As for how to fix the problem, it's impossible to say without knowing where exactly you are in that romance - how far you have progressed it. The *second* time Dermin appears, he should be the one initiate dialog, not Jaheira.

I don't mind taking a look at your save if that's ok with you. Just make a save right before Dermin appears then send me that.

amazingchestahead: You can upload your save to Mediafire then give me the download link. But try something simple first. Load a save before Dermin appears, pause the game, then open the console (CTRL+SPACE) and copypaste this line in and hit Enter:

CLUAConsole:SetGlobal("JaheiraBanditPlot","GLOBAL",9)

Copy this with CTRL+C and paste it in the console with CTRL+V; you don't have to type it.

Setting the variable JaheiraBanditPlot to 9 prevents the dialog line you mentioned from being triggered again. See what happens.