I learnt two lessons that shaped my life philosophy even today:
1. If I'm lost in a video game, the path with enemies usually tell me that I'm going the right way.
Explanation:
I just LOOVE to explore in video game worlds! I like to find every secret or hidden Easter Egg and often deviate from the main storyline path.
Therefore, I was easily lost in the virtual world and had no idea where the game needed me to go.
This was the case of The Witcher 3, but I ended up finding many secrets so getting lost was a plus!
Many new games feature an "arrow" that points the player to the right direction, so being lost isn't as common.
I had the worst lost experiences with older games. I remember spending hours trying to find the right path in Half Life and Cry of Fear.
That is when I learned that the correct direction to advance the story would be guarded by enemies!
Application in real life
From an abstract perspective, when I encountered hardship in life, those experiences had helped me grow the most.
It is much easier said than done. Some experiences can even bring tears to my eyes, but surviving them has taught me the most valuable life lessons than anything one can pay for in school.
The paths with most hardships tend to be right direction for maturing in life and growing in personality, physically, and spirituality.
I haven't perfected this yet. There is still much more for me to learn and apply this in my life but it has changed my life drastically and has taught me to go outside of my comfort zone. I wouldn't be who I am today without this life philosophy.
2. Sleep early! Have good time management and self-control to do so
Very simple and direct lesson. Some may even say it is common sense.
It is rather funny that I would learn this lesson from a video game, but I sure did.
Explanation
In Stardew Valley, if you go to bed later than 1AM, you oversleep and wake up with half your energy bar filled as opposed to max.
I was very ambitious and wanted to complete the most I can
So I was always very reluctant to go to bed at 12AM. Considering travel time, it would already be past 1AM when I returned home. However, the game forced me to get in the habit of sleeping at 12AM.
Application in real life
Consequently, it forced me to adapt two important habits in life:
▪ Self-Control
Stop working when it is 11PM and start heading home!
It was very difficult. There are always errands to attend to!
But no excuses! Pack your bags and head home
▪ Time Management
Even if I head home at 12AM, I wouldn't make it before 1AM
So this forced me to plan ahead of time and consider travel time and plants' maturity time for which to farm in each season.
Stardew Valley's mechanism for sleeping late resembles real life significantly.
Sure, we don't see energy bars floating next to us in real life but we undoubtedly would feel tired and more irritated after not sleeping enough. We have all been there before!
Before I realized, I was also going to bed earlier in real life.
"Wait, I want to finish a video game mission first"
Nope, do it tomorrow. It is 12AM now.
Indirectly, video games (ironically) had helped me improve my time management and self-control and a good habit of getting more sleep!
Thank you video games and video game developers!
Much love <33
Post edited March 25, 2021 by drxenija