AFnord: I'll have to disagree with you on the encounter design in DA:O, I think that's one of the games big weaknesses. There are good encounters, but so many of them feel repetitive, and that's in large due to how many enemies are functionally very similar. There's not a big difference between a darkspawn or a human.
When it comes to being an introduction to that general style if RPGs, I think Pillars of Eternity is more inspired. There's more variety between the enemies and the encounters, and the balance is better. Pillars is not as friendly to newcomers as DA:O, but ultimately I think it's a better game.
StingingVelvet: I think all RPGs of this type are filled with trash encounters to some degree, and I find a lot of DA:O's encounters to be much better than average. Like you'll go through a mini-dungeon and fight a few trash mobs before arriving at a final fight that is very well thought out and structured. There's a lot of youtube videos of people doing these fights in interesting ways. I think it stands out among RtwP games, which usually are 99% trash mobs, but agree to disagree.
Pillars of Eternity is a weird one. I loved it, it took that Baldur's Gate style and mixed it with the storytelling and quest design focus of a Fallout or whatever, but so many consider it boring and bland. I'd guess those are people looking for more tactical or character design depth, considering they're the same people who tend to praise Pathfinder Kingmaker. I side more with Pillars.
Which gets to a good question for the OP: what is your RPG priority? Story and quest design, combat and character building, or exploration? It's rare a game excels at all these things, you usually have to say something like "I'm in the mood for exploration, so I'll play X" to get the right game for your current mood.
This is a great question. For my current gaming itch I would say...
Combat and Character building is top priority.
Followed by exploration.
And lastly story and quest design. I can usually deal with a mediocre story as long as the combat and character
building is fun.
Thanks again to everyone. I'm currently watching gameplay for over a dozen games to help me decide.
Wizardry 8 looks interesting.
I look at some gameplay for Arcanum but the combat seems mediocre.
Atom RPG is one that I've never heard of before but I like the look of it from screenshots. Haven't watched any gameplay yet.