Tauto: Thanks for the help but you are speaking in a foreign language as far as testing one at a time.Can I ask why everything says on pc 8GB? And it's only operating on 4GB as I can see where a strap connection is running from one to the other.This is way over my head and I think I'll wait for the crash.I refuse to take it to a pc repairman as they are bigger crooks than me.
Are you talking about RAM or VRAM? Most games require 8 GB RAM because the operating system takes up a lot of it. While there might be games which ask for at least 8 GB VRAM, I doubt that is the majority.
As to the rest if it, split second flickering. I've heard that can be an issue of SLI, but it could also be a bad video cable. That doesn't sound like your video cards dying to me. Flickering is usually related to a bad cable, drivers and refresh settings. This is opposed to "artifacts" that will appear under high load and are a clear indication your card is dying.
1) Check the connection at the back of your monitor and where the video cable goes into the graphic card. If you have a replacement, or know someone you can borrow a replacement cable to test, we can eliminate that as a source of the issue.
2) Try turning VSYNC on and off in your video settings and see if that makes a difference.
3) Another shot in the dark, but is everything plugged into the same power strip? If you have another outlet nearby, try plugging your monitor into a separate outlet from the computer.
Edit: What you said about your neighbor's drill and old TVs is very similar to what goes wrong with video cables. The shielding on the cable can crack over time from age and back and forth wiggling over time allowing interference from other electrical devices. The intermittent nature, such as the fact it can go away for months at a time might be the cord hanging in a "good position" which doesn't expose the crack so much. You can also try "wiggling" the cable itself, especially where it connects to the computer and then your monitor. If the problem gets worse from wiggling, it's definitely the cable. In the short term, you can play around with the way it sits and might be able to make the problem go away temporarily until you can get a new one.