bloodprice: Casey very easily could have sat on him and just pummeled the crap put of him.. Instead he walked away.
xyem: I think this is a very important aspect of this. It looked like the bully had his friends about and the chances of immediate retribution were likely to be pretty high (at least, from Casey's perspective) so why not vent as much as possible before that happened?
Instead, he makes a statement in one move (maybe "I can throw you around like a doll") and leaves it that. It's pretty clear in my opinion that he
really doesn't want to fight...
He also does all those things that you are told to do. He turns the other cheek (doesn't respond after a direct punch to the face), walks away (very brave considering another threat had presented and walking away involved turning his back on it) and the self control he shows (not continuing to hit the bully when he was down, despite the adrenaline rush) is nothing short of commendable in my eyes.
Agree on all of this. In fact, after the fight, some cheap jerk-off was coming after Casey with punk in his step, but another kid pushed him away. Casey got set up by multiple punks to be humiliated, and what was probably intended was that it would be Casey's humiliation that was to be put up on youtube. Oops sorry, things happened the other way around. But the intent behind this crap was really bad, and it wasn't limited just to one little rat dancing around in glee at an innocent's pain and humiliation. There are clearly things -- and attitudes -- going on in that school and community that adults are tolerating.
And to me, that's who really has no excuse here -- the adults. Kids, you halfway expect to be stupid. Even some pretty great adults started out as total jackasses when they were kids. But if you're an adult and jackass enough to be tolerating this kind of thing -- what's YOUR excuse?
carnival73: If I was Scrappy-Doo's parents I'd make him apologize too. Yeah, I mean I wouldn't like seeing my kid slammed on concrete but what he was doing was more hateful and asinine than the end result.
I wouldn't want my kid growing up to be an asshole so I probably would've given him a second body slam on the concrete when he got home.
Absolutely. I'd be ashamed as hell of my kid being such a hateful little dickwad, and he'd have a lot to answer to for that kind of behavior.
I'm old enough to remember when the immediate response to your kid getting out of line was not to defend his crappy behavior or start issuing threats to whoever he hurt (unless you were a douchebag of memorable proportions) but to walk him over to whoever he wronged and have him apologize, plus maybe ground him, whack him, keep him off the sports team, or give him a good scare besides. Parents taking their responsibilities as parents seriously was a great thing. We've lost a lot of bad things from the past, but that was a good one.