iippo: You cant measure good parenthood by how quiet the kid is you know.
grimwerk: I'm not judging simple quietness. I'm judging the continued effort she made to keep the kid calm and content.
...i would not necessarily call that success, if the method used was "questionable". Anyways, call me bad parents if you want, but i certainly have no wish to teach err "odd habits in general" to my kids. they tend to stick.
not talking about this particular case, but "keeping the kid calm and content" is actually the first priority either every time. Kids want to have many things, want to do many things and at times its parents job to show firmly where the border of "do" and "dont do" lies. Even if it leads to crying etc.
learning how to deal with dissapointment and "not getting everything" is one damn important thing you know.