Bought a Witchers 2 EE new&sealed from ebay. Only because according to amazon and google, there was supposed to be a world map and quest handbook included. I open the box and I only have 2 DVDs and a small manual.

I don't blame the seller since he just copied and pasted the blurb from somewhere else, as he cant physically open the box since its sealed.

So I am a little disappointed I threw $25 in the gutter. Which edition exactly had the questbook and map?

I seems like you bought "The Witcher 2: Assassin of Kings - Enhanced Light Edition". It is like the The Witcher 2: Assassin of Kings - Enhanced Edition but without the printed extras.
Here is a link from german amazon store page because I only found it on the german website:
https://www.amazon.de/Witcher-Assassin-Kings-Enhanced-Light/dp/B00BIYSF22/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1464213168&sr=8-1&keywords=witcher+2

So perhaps you should blame the seller because he didn't said that it is only the light edition.

Hm I guess you are right. Maybe the seller didnt know himself. Well I have the game on GoG and on the DVD now. Thanks for the help.