My recommendation is Alba which is single player but certainly what you and your daughter will be able to enjoy together. :-)

Since you originally asked for Co-Op or PVP that's Cook, Serve, Delicious 1, 2, 3 and thinking of it Pile Up that's the most family friendly I can think of and safely recommend to you.

Portal 2 Co-op?

Since it wasn't mentioned yet, Knights and Bikes might be worth a consideration, too.

Chloe: Playtime! looks like a good pick to play with a kid, although it's more single player. (you can, however, take turns when you go through the puzzles that require 2 characters)

Windows, Linux and Mac versions:
https://rogermaher.itch.io/chloe

Android version:
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.rmstudios.kloe
(and it seems the dev is working on a drm free version of the Android release)

I'm afraid I have no recommendations. Playing Mario Kart with my daughter created some fond memories. That was decades ago. Enjoy your father-daughter time.

maybe one of these...

Cat Quest 1+2
https://www.gog.com/game/cat_quest
https://www.gog.com/game/cat_quest_ii

Bonkies
https://www.gog.com/game/bonkies

SpongeBob SquarePants: Battle for Bikini Bottom - Rehydrated
https://www.gog.com/game/spongebob_squarepants_battle_for_bikini_bottom_rehydrated

Most definitely the LEGO games.

A Hat in Time should be just the ticket. (The company is on my personal shit-list for stiffing console owners something fierce, though.)

Pile Up! Box by Box looks the part, by I haven't yet gotten around to it myself.

While not 3D, Trine 1, 2 and 4 are great co-op games with a child-in-co-op-with-adult-friendly easy mode.

Thank you everyone!

I will definitely try your suggestions.

From my side I would like to recommend Cat Quest (especially 2) and Trine 4.

Maybe the new Kitaria fables mioht be worth a look:

Here on GOG.

A game about cat adventurers.

it contains adventuring, farming and crafting aspects.

I would also point out Ghost of a Tale is nice family game (no killing, but no coop), but it may be too scary for small children. I heard two year olds got scared by rat guard.

Does the cat live in this? (I want to avoid spoilers and indeed any other info about the game but I need to know about the cat.)

oh and skip all these cat games those are lame
do you want your girl to become a cat lady? hope not , so no cat games

Tesla vs Lovecraft. It may have "lovecraft" in there, but it's not really horror at all. It's a twin-stick shooter, and you can do dual pad co-op. Easy to pick whichever stages work well for the difficulty the two of you can do together.

And it's not 3d, but hopefully you've played Stardew Valley together by now! The latest update added split screen. Language may be an issue there, depending on where she is. It doesn't have Polish and is a very language-heavy game.