Braussie: Do you ever spend quite a bit of time writing a response to a post, and then once you're finished you look at it and go "What's the point?" then decide not to respond at all?
I've had that happen about 5 times tonight. I almost did that with this thread...
If you also have that happen, why do you cancel your post? What types of threads/posts were you responding to? Or was it just a mood thing?
I've found that is one of the things that make a good forumite.
I do it all the time because of three rules I have for posting. Following them is so so but I try.
Rule 1: Does it add anything relevant to the topic? If not think again about posting it.
Rule 2: Will it start a heated discussion or flaming? If it will is it worth it for you to go down that lane?
Rule 3: Will it start a discussion that is off topic? Do you think what you're about to say is important enough to you to post it?
I've avoided lots of angst and deleted many posts just when I was about to click the post button by following these rules. :)